Beyond the Myth: Gender, Language, and the Dynamics of Speech Quantity

First published: 01 October 2025 | https://doi.org/10.63871/unvl.jsuv1.1.1
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Abstract

The question of whether women talk more than men has sparked considerable interest among both the general public and linguistic researchers. Numerous sociolinguistic studies have sought to explore this issue; however, their findings have been inconsistent. While some studies suggest that women are more talkative, others indicate that men speak more, and yet others report no significant difference in the amount of speech between the two genders. This paper aims to provide a critical review of the existing research on this gender-based stereotype. Firstly, it argues that there is no definitive answer to the question, "Do women talk more than men?” Secondly, it explores how gender differences in verbosity may vary depending on a range of contextual and social factors.
  

Methods

This paper aims to carefully review the research on this stereotype. It has two main purposes: (1) firstly, to show that there is no simple or definite answer to Beyond the Myth: Gender, Language, and the Dynamics of Speech Quantity Dr. Anila Hima1 , Dr. Bukuroshe Isufaj2 1University of Vlora “Ismail Qemali“, Faculty of Humanities, Department of Foreign Languages anila.hima@univlora.edu.al 2University of Vlora “Ismail Qemali“, Faculty of Humanities, Department of Foreign Languages bukuroshe.isufaj@univlora.edu.al DOI: https://doi.org/10.63871/unvl.jsuv1.1.1 Number 1, Volume 1, 2025 University of Vlora “Ismail Qemali” 8 whether women talk more than men;(2) and second, to explore the reasons why people still believe there is a difference, even if the research doesn’t fully support it. Some of the questions this paper addresses are: Do women really talk more than men? Do they dominate the speaking time during conversations? Do men find it difficult to take turns, as it may be understood if women speak more than men? And if these ideas aren’t backed up by research, why do the stereotypes continue to exist?

Results

In public contexts — such as meetings, academic discussions, or workplace debates — men are often more vocal because these environments reward assertiveness and competitive speaking styles associated with status-building. Women, on the other hand, tend to speak more in private settings, such as conversations among close friends or family members, where the primary goal is emotional connection rather than public display. The fear of negative judgment or the feeling that their contributions may not be valued in public can also cause women to speak less in formal environments.

Conclusions

In conclusion, the inquiry into whether women speak more than men has generated a substantial body of research characterized by considerable variation and inconsistency in findings. While certain studies suggest that women engage in more verbal activity, others conclude that men are more verbally dominant, and yet others report negligible or context-dependent differences.

CONFLICT OF INTEREST

The authors declare no conflict of interest.

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Hima, A.; Isufaj, B. Beyond the Myth: Gender, Language, and the Dynamics of Speech Quantity. UniVlora Sci. J. 2025, https://doi.org/10.63871/unvl.jsuv1.1.1